Heteronormativity, defined

Let's define some terms.

To begin, it makes sense to look at heteronormativity first, since it is the core of the problem we’re addressing. A basic definition of heteronormativity is that it is a cultural belief or mindset that opposite sex relationships are the only acceptable form of sexual relationships, and same sex relationships are frowned upon and seen as unacceptable. Karin A. Martin and Emily Kazyak, while talking about heteronormativity in one of our readings for class, said that it “structures social life so that heterosexuality is always assumed, expected, ordinary, and privileged. Its pervasiveness makes it difficult for people to imagine other ways of life.” It is deeply ingrained in most cultures of the world. The problem occurs when these deep rooted beliefs turn toward things that aren’t the norm, and in turn affect them negatively. These non-norm things range from the obvious, such as same sex relationships not being accepted, to more subtle actions, such as a group of boys picking on another boy because he’s not acting “manly” enough. Heteronormativity is everywhere in our society today, and while it has gotten more accepting over time, there is still much more that needs to improve.

-Pat Hagan